Dementia Assessment for a Parent or Relative

A private dementia assessment can help when you are concerned about memory, thinking, confusion or behaviour changes in a parent, partner or relative.

It can be difficult to know when to step in. You may have noticed repeated conversations, missed appointments, confusion, changes in mood, or difficulty managing daily tasks. Your relative may be aware of the changes, or they may feel worried, defensive or unsure why an assessment is needed.

At ADHD Health Clinic, private dementia assessments are designed to help patients and families understand what may be happening and agree clear next steps.

When a Family Member May Need an Assessment

A dementia or memory assessment may be helpful if your parent, partner or relative is experiencing:

The key issue is whether there has been a noticeable change from how the person previously functioned.

How to Raise Concerns Sensitively

Talking about memory problems can feel uncomfortable. Some people may already be worried. Others may not recognise the changes or may feel criticised.

It can help to:

For example, instead of saying “you need a dementia test”, it may be better to say:

“You seem to have been finding a few things harder recently. It might be worth speaking to a specialist so we can understand what is going on and what support might help.”

Can a Relative Attend the Appointment?

Yes. In many cases, it is very helpful for a relative, partner, carer or close friend to attend.

They may be able to provide examples of changes in memory, thinking, communication, behaviour or day-to-day functioning. This can help the clinician build a fuller picture, especially if the person being assessed is finding it hard to explain what has changed.

For ADHD Health Clinic’s online dementia assessment, attendance with a carer, relative or family member who knows the patient well is strongly recommended.

Private Dementia & Memory Assessments

Private dementia and memory assessments for adults experiencing memory changes, confusion, word-finding difficulties or cognitive concerns.

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What Information Is Helpful Before the Appointment?

Before the assessment, it can be useful to gather:

The clinic recommends providing a recent brain MRI result and blood test result before an online dementia assessment where available. If these are not already in place, the clinician can explain what is needed after the appointment.

Choosing Online or In-Person Dementia Assessment

An online dementia assessment may be suitable if your relative is comfortable using video appointments, finds travel difficult, or would feel more relaxed attending from home.

An in-person dementia assessment may be more suitable if your relative would prefer face-to-face contact, finds online appointments difficult, or has more complex needs that may be easier to discuss in clinic.

If you are unsure which option is most appropriate, consider practical factors such as travel, confidence with technology, hearing or communication needs, and whether a family member or carer can attend.

What Happens After the Assessment?

After the assessment, the clinician will explain their findings and recommend next steps.

This may include:

NICE guidance covers dementia assessment, management and support for people living with dementia and their carers, underlining the importance of considering both the person affected and those supporting them.

FOR ADULTS

Online Dementia Assessment

£900

Consultant-led online dementia and memory diagnosis appointments

FOR ADULTS

In-Person Dementia Assessment

£1250

Adult dementia and memory diagnosis at our Marylebone or Barnet clinics.

For More Information

Can I attend the assessment with my parent or relative?
Yes, where the patient agrees. A relative, partner, carer or close friend can provide helpful context and examples of changes.
This can happen. Try to keep the conversation calm and supportive. It may help to explain that memory problems can have many causes and that assessment is about understanding what is happening, not assuming a diagnosis.
An online appointment can form part of a structured clinical assessment, especially when supported by a detailed history, cognitive screening, family input and relevant investigations. Your clinician will advise if further tests, imaging or in-person review are needed.
Prepare examples of symptoms, a list of medication, medical history, recent blood test or MRI results if available, and notes from a family member or carer who knows the patient well.
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Please Note

ADHD Health Clinic is not a crisis service. If you are experiencing a medical emergency, call 999 immediately. For urgent medical help that is not life-threatening, contact NHS 111.

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